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  • I’m Trying to Understand Israel and Palestine

    I’m trying to understand the Israel-Palestine conflict.

    Not understand it enough to pick a team.

    Not understand it enough to repeat whatever slogan happens to be trending.

    Actually understand it.

    Because the more I read, the more I realize how incredibly complicated this is—and how much of the conversation seems to require pretending that half of the history doesn’t exist.

    And honestly?

    I have questions.

    A lot of them.

    First: What does “Free Palestine” actually mean?

    I hear people say “Free Palestine” constantly.

    But free Palestine from what?

    The Israeli occupation of the West Bank?

    The blockade and restrictions surrounding Gaza?

    Israeli settlements?

    Israeli sovereignty over territory Palestinians claim?

    Or does it mean eliminating Israel entirely?

    Because those are very different things.

    And I don’t think it’s unreasonable to ask someone what they actually mean when they say it.

    For many Palestinians and their supporters, “Free Palestine” means Palestinian self-determination—an independent Palestinian state and an end to occupation.

    For others, it means a single state covering the entire area between the Jordan River and the Mediterranean Sea.

    Those are radically different political visions.

    And here’s the question I keep coming back to:

    Can I support the Palestinian people’s right to freedom and self-determination without supporting Hamas?

    Of course I can.

    And can I believe Israelis have a right to live safely without believing every action taken by the Israeli government is justified?

    Of course I can.

    Why do we keep acting like those positions are mutually exclusive?

    But here’s where history gets really uncomfortable.

    I’ve heard people say:

    “That land belongs to the Palestinians.”

    I’ve also heard:

    “That land belongs to Israel because it is the ancestral homeland of the Jewish people.”

    And I keep thinking:

    Does land actually work that way?

    If my ancestors lived somewhere 2,000 years ago, does that give me ownership of that land today?

    Probably not.

    But if my grandparents were born somewhere, lived there their entire lives, built a home there and then were expelled from it, does that mean their descendants have no legitimate claim whatsoever?

    That doesn’t seem right either.

    And that’s one of the things I’m struggling with.

    Because Jews have an undeniable and ancient connection to this land.

    So do Palestinians.

    This isn’t a situation where one group has an ancient connection and the other just showed up recently.

    The modern conflict, however, is much more recent than the ancient histories invoked by both sides.

    The territory was part of the Ottoman Empire, then became the British Mandate for Palestine after World War I. In 1947, the United Nations proposed partitioning the territory into a Jewish state and an Arab state, with Jerusalem under a special international arrangement.

    The Jewish state became Israel.

    The proposed Arab Palestinian state did not.

    War followed.

    And the consequences of that war are still being felt today.

    The Nakba is real.

    During the 1948 war, more than 700,000 Palestinians became refugees. Some fled fighting. Others were expelled from their homes. Palestinian villages were destroyed or depopulated.

    The Palestinian term for this is the Nakba, meaning “catastrophe.”

    I don’t think anyone should minimize what happened.

    Imagine being told that the place your family has lived for generations is no longer your home.

    Imagine becoming a refugee because of a war you didn’t start.

    Imagine your children and grandchildren growing up without ever being allowed to return to the place your family came from.

    That’s not something I can just dismiss.

    But then I have another question.

    What happened to the Jews?

    They didn’t disappear.

    The Jewish people had also experienced centuries of persecution, expulsions and massacres in Europe and elsewhere, culminating in the Holocaust.

    Six million Jews were murdered.

    And after that, the idea of Jews having somewhere they could be safe wasn’t an abstract political theory.

    It was an existential question.

    So I find myself looking at this and thinking:

    How can we acknowledge the catastrophe suffered by Palestinians without pretending Jewish historical trauma didn’t happen?

    And how can we acknowledge Jewish historical trauma without pretending Palestinian displacement didn’t happen?

    Why does acknowledging one seem to require denying the other?

    Then there’s 1967.

    This is another major turning point.

    During the Six-Day War, Israel captured the West Bank, East Jerusalem and Gaza, along with other territory.

    Israel subsequently maintained control over the West Bank, while the political status of Gaza evolved differently after Israel’s 2005 withdrawal of its permanent ground presence and settlements there.

    The West Bank situation is especially important because Israeli settlements have expanded there over decades.

    And this isn’t merely something I have to take someone’s political word for.

    In 2024, the International Court of Justice issued an advisory opinion concluding that Israel’s continued presence in the Palestinian territory occupied since 1967 is unlawful and that its settlement policies and annexation-related practices violate international law and obstruct Palestinian self-determination.

    That’s a pretty significant finding.

    But then I have another question:

    If Israel believes its security requires maintaining control over portions of the West Bank, how does that get reconciled with Palestinian self-determination?

    And on the other side:

    If Palestinians achieve an independent state, what guarantees Israel that another armed group won’t use that territory to attack Israeli civilians?

    Those aren’t stupid questions.

    They’re both legitimate questions.

    And then there’s Hamas.

    This is where I absolutely cannot get on board with pretending that Palestinian suffering somehow makes Hamas’s actions acceptable.

    It doesn’t.

    Hamas-led forces murdered civilians on October 7, 2023.

    They kidnapped people.

    They took hostages.

    They committed atrocities against Israeli civilians.

    Those aren’t legitimate acts of resistance simply because Palestinians have legitimate grievances.

    You don’t get to murder a civilian because you have a legitimate political complaint.

    Period.

    And here’s something else I’ve struggled with:

    Why should an Israeli mother have to explain to her child why someone wants to kill her simply because she’s Israeli?

    Why should a Palestinian mother have to explain to her child why their home was destroyed or why someone they love was killed?

    Why do either of those mothers have to carry the consequences of decisions made by politicians and armed groups?

    But Hamas isn’t Palestine.

    This distinction matters enormously.

    Hamas is not every Palestinian.

    A Palestinian child isn’t Hamas.

    A Palestinian Christian isn’t Hamas.

    A Palestinian who hates Hamas isn’t Hamas.

    A Palestinian who wants peace isn’t Hamas.

    And the same principle works in reverse.

    The Israeli government isn’t every Israeli.

    An Israeli child isn’t Netanyahu.

    A Jewish grandmother in Tel Aviv isn’t responsible for every policy of the Israeli government.

    An Israeli who protests against settlement expansion isn’t responsible for it.

    So why are ordinary people constantly being assigned collective guilt for the actions of governments and militant organizations?

    And Israel isn’t innocent either.

    This is where I think conversations get dishonest.

    Israel absolutely has a right to protect its citizens.

    But does having a legitimate security concern give a country unlimited authority?

    No.

    International humanitarian law doesn’t work that way.

    The International Court of Justice has found serious violations relating to Israel’s policies in the occupied Palestinian territories, including settlement activity, annexation-related practices and restrictions affecting Palestinians.

    And there have also been extensive allegations and findings concerning Israeli conduct during the war in Gaza.

    So I have another question:

    If Hamas commits a war crime, does that make an Israeli response automatically lawful?

    No.

    And:

    If Israel commits a violation, does that somehow make Hamas’s attack on Israeli civilians legitimate?

    Also no.

    Why can’t we condemn both?

    This is where “both sides” gets tricky.

    I often hear:

    “Both sides are guilty.”

    I think that can be true.

    But I also think we need to be careful with what we mean.

    “Both sides have committed wrongdoing” does not mean every action is equivalent.

    Hamas is a non-state armed organization.

    Israel is a sovereign state with a powerful military and different legal obligations.

    The scale, circumstances, capabilities and responsibilities are not necessarily identical.

    So I’m not interested in saying:

    “They’re both equally bad.”

    That’s too simplistic.

    I’m interested in saying:

    Civilians on both sides have been harmed. Armed groups and governments have committed serious violations. Historical grievances are real. And none of those facts cancels out another fact.

    But here’s the question I keep getting stuck on:

    Who does the land actually belong to?

    And the more I think about it, the more I think maybe that’s the wrong question.

    Because what does “belong” even mean?

    Does a piece of land belong to the person whose ancestors lived there 2,000 years ago?

    The person whose grandparents lived there?

    The person who currently lives there?

    The government that controls it?

    The person who has a legal deed?

    The people who have historically inhabited the region?

    The people who were displaced from it?

    These aren’t the same thing.

    And maybe that’s the fundamental problem.

    Two peoples have developed national identities and political claims around the same piece of land.

    There isn’t a magic historical deed sitting in a drawer somewhere that says:

    Congratulations. You win Palestine.

    So what does “Free Palestine” mean to me?

    I’m still figuring that out.

    But I know what I don’t think it should mean.

    It shouldn’t mean:

    “Free Palestine by eliminating Israel.”

    And I don’t think Israeli security should mean:

    “Palestinians can remain indefinitely without genuine political freedom.”

    I don’t think Palestinian liberation requires hatred of Jews.

    And I don’t think Jewish safety requires hatred of Palestinians.

    I don’t think supporting Israel’s existence requires supporting every Israeli government policy.

    And I don’t think supporting Palestinian statehood requires supporting Hamas.

    Those distinctions seem incredibly obvious to me.

    So why are they so difficult to make?

    And then I get to the question nobody seems able to answer.

    When does it end?

    How many generations have to inherit the trauma?

    How many children have to grow up knowing the names of people killed before them?

    How many families have to bury sons and daughters?

    How many homes have to be destroyed?

    How many people have to become refugees?

    How many terrorist attacks can a population endure before fear becomes part of its identity?

    How many military operations can another population endure before anger becomes part of its identity?

    At what point do we stop asking:

    “Who started it?”

    and start asking:

    “How do we stop it?”

    Because if the answer is that peace can only happen after one side completely defeats the other, then what exactly are we waiting for?

    Another generation?

    Maybe the hardest question is this:

    What if neither side gets everything it wants?

    What if Israel doesn’t get every piece of territory it considers historically or strategically important?

    What if Palestinians don’t get every piece of territory they consider historically theirs?

    What if refugees don’t get every outcome they want?

    What if Jerusalem requires compromise?

    What if security requires international guarantees?

    What if Palestinian sovereignty requires Hamas to give up armed control?

    What if Israeli settlements require painful political decisions?

    What if peace requires both peoples to accept something they believe is profoundly unfair?

    Because that’s what compromise usually looks like.

    Nobody gets everything.

    I don’t pretend to have solved this.

    I’m not an expert on the Middle East.

    I’m not Palestinian.

    I’m not Israeli.

    And I’m certainly not going to pretend I understand what it’s like to grow up fearing rockets, terrorism, occupation, displacement or war.

    But I do think we’re capable of something better than shouting slogans at each other.

    I can believe Palestinians deserve freedom.

    I can believe Israelis deserve safety.

    I can condemn Hamas.

    I can criticize the Israeli government.

    I can acknowledge the Nakba.

    I can acknowledge the Holocaust.

    I can acknowledge Jewish historical ties to the land.

    I can acknowledge Palestinian historical ties to the land.

    I can believe that civilians on both sides deserve to live.

    And I can still ask uncomfortable questions.

    Actually, I think we need to ask them.

    Because maybe the goal shouldn’t be figuring out which people have the better historical claim to the land.

    Maybe the goal should be figuring out how two peoples who believe that land is home can both have a future there.

    And maybe the first step toward peace isn’t deciding which side we’re supposed to hate.

    Maybe it’s being willing to say:

    “Your suffering is real. Mine doesn’t become less real because yours is real too.”

  • If They Celebrate His Murder, What Would They Say About Mine?

    Today is a hard day.

    One year ago today, Charlie Kirk was murdered while doing something he had spent years doing: standing in front of people who disagreed with him and talking.

    Arguing.

    Challenging.

    Provoking.

    Listening.

    Sometimes getting it wrong. Sometimes getting it right. Sometimes irritating the hell out of people.

    But he showed up.

    And someone decided that disagreement had crossed the line into justification for murder.

    That should horrify every decent person, regardless of political affiliation.

    Yet today, one year later, I am seeing things online that have left me genuinely shaken.

    People mocking Charlie’s death.

    People celebrating it.

    People making jokes about the shooting.

    People posting things that may not explicitly say, “I am glad he was murdered,” but come damn close enough that everyone knows what they mean.

    And I’ve had an uncomfortable realization.

    There are people on my Facebook feed whom I no longer want in my life.

    Not because they are liberal.

    Not because they voted differently than I did.

    Not because they disagree with me about abortion, Donald Trump, immigration, gender, taxes, guns, or any other political issue.

    I can handle disagreement.

    Hell, I expect it.

    I have friends with whom I disagree about enormous things. I love people who don’t vote like I do. I don’t need everyone around me to share my worldview.

    But there is a line between disagreeing with someone’s beliefs and celebrating their destruction because of those beliefs.

    That line matters to me.

    And perhaps the most disturbing part is that Charlie himself seemed to understand something I am still struggling to learn.

    He was remarkably willing to engage people he disagreed with.

    He would sit across from college students who openly despised him and say, essentially, Come talk to me.

    He didn’t require agreement before granting someone humanity.

    I admire that enormously.

    And I’m going to be honest:

    I’m not sure I’m that strong.

    Maybe that is my own uncomfortable confession today.

    I don’t know that I can embrace someone with compassion after watching them celebrate the murder of someone simply because they hated what he believed.

    I can forgive someone for having different political opinions.

    I can understand that reasonable people can reach radically different conclusions.

    I can even laugh at myself when someone makes a good point that challenges my assumptions.

    But if you see a man murdered for his political beliefs and your reaction is good, he deserved it, one less fascist, or some variation of I have no sympathy because I hated him…

    I need some distance from you.

    And I’m not going to apologize for that.

    Because here’s the question I can’t stop thinking about:

    If someone took my life because of my conservative beliefs, what would you say?

    Would you mourn?

    Would you say, What a tragedy. I disagreed with her, but she didn’t deserve that.

    Or would you say:

    Good.

    She got what she deserved.

    One less conservative.

    I’m not going to lose sleep over it.

    Would you celebrate?

    Would you make memes?

    Would you turn my death into a punchline?

    Because if you could do that to Charlie, I have to wonder what you would do if the person being carried away in a body bag was me.

    And that’s where this stops being theoretical.

    Because Charlie wasn’t murdered because he was a murderer.

    He wasn’t killed because he had physically harmed the people who disagreed with him.

    He was killed because someone allegedly decided that his political expression made him worthy of death. Prosecutors have alleged that Robinson targeted Kirk because of his political expression, and the case is now headed toward trial.

    That is terrifying.

    Because once we decide that certain opinions make people less deserving of life, the principle doesn’t stay neatly contained on one side of the political aisle.

    It never does.

    Today it’s Charlie Kirk.

    Tomorrow it’s someone you love.

    And eventually, perhaps, it’s you.

    That’s why I don’t care whether you liked Charlie.

    You didn’t have to.

    You could think he was arrogant.

    You could think he was wrong.

    You could think his politics were dangerous.

    You could think his rhetoric was inflammatory.

    You could despise everything he stood for.

    And still believe he should be alive.

    That’s the bare minimum.

    Actually, it’s more than the bare minimum.

    It is civilization.

    We are supposed to be able to hate an idea without hating the person who holds it.

    We are supposed to be able to argue without annihilating one another.

    We are supposed to believe that the person across the political aisle is still a human being whose life has value.

    And when we lose that?

    We have lost something far more important than an election.

    We’ve lost the ability to coexist.

    So yes, today I am grieving Charlie Kirk.

    I’m grieving the husband who lost his life.

    I’m grieving the father whose children will grow up without him.

    I’m grieving a young man who had an enormous amount of life left to live.

    And I’m grieving something else, too.

    I’m grieving the people I thought understood the difference between political disagreement and moral depravity.

    Some of them apparently don’t.

    And maybe that’s okay.

    Maybe this is what boundaries are for.

    I don’t have to hate them.

    I don’t have to attack them.

    I don’t have to convince them.

    I can love some people from a distance.

    But I don’t have to keep people in my life who make me question whether they believe my life would still have value if they hated my politics enough.

    Charlie spent his life telling people to debate him.

    He invited people to challenge him.

    He believed ideas should be confronted with better ideas.

    And perhaps the best way to honor him isn’t by becoming more hateful ourselves.

    Perhaps it is by refusing to become the thing that killed him.

    We can disagree.

    We can argue.

    We can challenge one another.

    We can even despise each other’s politics.

    But we don’t get to decide that our political opponents are less human.

    And we certainly don’t get to celebrate when they’re dead.

    Because the moment we start cheering for political murder, we aren’t defending our values anymore.

    We’re abandoning them.

  • Are We Defending Our Beliefs — or Ourselves?

    I think I’ve finally figured out one of the things that bothers me most about politics right now.

    It’s not even that people disagree with me.

    I actually like when people disagree with me. It makes life interesting. I don’t need everyone sitting around nodding their heads at everything I say.

    What bothers me is when someone’s political beliefs become so intertwined with their identity that admitting they’re wrong becomes almost impossible.

    Because then politics isn’t:

    “I believe this policy is better.”

    It becomes:

    “I am one of the good people.”

    And that’s a completely different thing.

    Once you’ve convinced yourself that your political beliefs are proof of your moral goodness, questioning those beliefs suddenly feels personal.

    If I admit my side was wrong, what does that say about me?

    If I admit the person I’ve been defending actually did something terrible, maybe I’m not as compassionate as I thought.

    If I admit someone from my political tribe is a hypocrite, maybe I’m a hypocrite for defending them.

    If I acknowledge that the other side occasionally has a legitimate point, does that mean I’m betraying my people?

    And THAT is where I think things get really weird.

    Because I’ve watched progressive people bend themselves into absolute pretzels to defend things they would find completely reprehensible if the political labels were reversed.

    I’ve watched people demand that we “believe women” until the woman happens to be accusing someone they politically support.

    I’ve watched people scream about systemic injustice while excusing horrific individual behavior because the perpetrator belongs to a group they’ve decided is oppressed.

    I’ve watched people preach compassion for criminals while having absolutely zero compassion for their victims.

    I’ve watched people demand tolerance while treating anyone who disagrees with them as morally defective.

    And I’ve watched people insist that we must respect someone’s identity while simultaneously telling everyone else that their understanding of reality is hateful and invalid.

    That’s not tolerance.

    That’s “agree with me or you’re a bad person.”

    And here’s the part that really fascinates me:

    Some of these same people seem genuinely convinced they’re the most open-minded people in the room.

    That’s the hypocrisy.

    And before the conservatives start high-fiving themselves…

    We’re not innocent.

    I’ve watched conservatives do the exact same damn thing.

    We talk about personal responsibility until one of our own screws up.

    We talk about family values while excusing terrible behavior from politicians we like.

    We complain about government censorship while wanting to silence things we find offensive.

    We demand law and order until the person breaking the law is someone we’re politically sympathetic toward.

    We scream “fake news” when the facts don’t fit our preferred narrative.

    Same disease.

    Different symptoms.

    Because the real addiction isn’t liberalism or conservatism.

    It’s moral identity.

    There is something incredibly intoxicating about believing you’re on the right side of history.

    You get to be the enlightened one.

    The compassionate one.

    The defender.

    The person who “gets it.”

    And once that becomes part of your identity, you don’t necessarily care about being right anymore.

    You care about being good.

    And those aren’t always the same thing.

    Sometimes the most morally courageous thing you can do is say:

    “I was wrong.”

    Sometimes it’s:

    “I don’t like this person, but they’re right about this.”

    Sometimes it’s:

    “The person I voted for screwed up.”

    Sometimes it’s:

    “The person I disagree with isn’t evil. They just see the world differently than I do.”

    And sometimes it’s:

    “Holy shit…I’ve been defending something I wouldn’t tolerate if the other side did it.”

    That’s growth.

    That’s intellectual honesty.

    And honestly, I think we need a lot more of it.

    Because I don’t want a political identity that makes me feel like I’m one of the good people.

    I want beliefs that can survive being questioned.

    I want to be able to change my mind without feeling like I’ve betrayed my entire identity.

    I want to be able to call bullshit when my own side is full of shit.

    And I want to be able to recognize something good when it comes from the other side without feeling like I’ve joined the enemy.

    Maybe that’s the real problem.

    We’re so busy trying to prove we’re the good guys that we’ve stopped asking whether what we’re actually defending is good.

    And those are two very different questions.

    Being a good person isn’t about always being on the right side.

    It’s about being willing to admit when you’re not.

  • The Narcissist-in-Chief: A Nation’s Reflection in the Oval Office

    Every four years, we, the American people, engage in a curious ritual: we elect a president. It’s supposed to be the highest office in the land, a symbol of leadership, integrity, and service. But if we’re being brutally honest, isn’t it really just a contest to see who has the most polished version of their own reflection staring back at them in the mirror?

    Let’s call it what it is: an exercise in collective narcissism. We choose leaders who don’t just represent us—they embody the parts of ourselves we’re either too proud of or too ashamed to admit exist. And yes, presidents are narcissists. All of them. It’s practically a requirement of the job. Who else would willingly take on the pressure of running an entire nation, standing under constant scrutiny, and delivering speeches with the cadence of a savior?

    The “Me, But Bigger” Syndrome

    Take John F. Kennedy, for example. Charming, polished, and endlessly charismatic, he gave America exactly what it wanted to see in itself at the time: youth, vitality, and boundless ambition. But let’s not forget, JFK loved the spotlight just as much as the nation loved him in it. He wasn’t just a leader—he was a mirror reflecting an America that was ready to take the world stage with confidence and swagger.

    Or how about Ronald Reagan? The actor turned president. Reagan’s “shining city on a hill” rhetoric wasn’t just about national pride—it was about making everyone feel like the protagonist of a blockbuster movie where America always saves the day. We didn’t just vote for Reagan; we voted for a Hollywood version of ourselves.

    Then there’s Donald Trump. Love him or hate him, Trump’s presidency was like a national therapy session—except instead of confronting our issues, we projected them onto a man who mastered the art of shameless self-promotion. His slogan, “Make America Great Again,” wasn’t just about nostalgia; it was a reflection of our collective fear of being left behind in a world that’s moving too fast.

    Narcissism is a Feature, Not a Bug

    Let’s be real: you can’t get elected president without a healthy dose of self-obsession. The very act of campaigning—standing on a stage, waving to crowds, and saying, “I alone can fix it”—requires a level of confidence that most of us would need several years of therapy to even attempt. The same traits that we find grating in politicians—arrogance, an insatiable need for attention, and a knack for spinning reality—are exactly what make them electable.

    Barack Obama, with his soaring speeches and rockstar persona, made Americans feel like they were part of something bigger. But let’s not kid ourselves: you don’t run for president because you’re humble. Obama’s carefully cultivated image as the “cool dad” of politics wasn’t an accident. It was a masterclass in appealing to a nation that wanted to see itself as progressive, hopeful, and yes, a little bit cooler than the rest of the world.

    Why We Elect Our Own Egos

    The truth is, we elect the candidate who best reflects our collective ego at the time. In moments of crisis, we choose leaders who project strength and decisiveness—qualities we wish we had. In times of prosperity, we lean toward charm and vision, because hey, who doesn’t love a little inspiration when things are going well?

    But the darker side of this is that we also elect candidates who mirror our flaws. When we’re divided as a nation, we choose divisive leaders. When we’re insecure, we choose leaders who promise to restore our sense of importance. And when we’re looking for someone to blame, we choose leaders who are experts at pointing fingers.

    So, What Does This Say About Us?

    If every president is a narcissist, and every election is a reflection of ourselves, then maybe it’s time to stop pointing fingers at the politicians and start taking a good, hard look in the mirror. Why do we need leaders who thrive on applause? Why do we gravitate toward candidates who make promises that no one person could possibly keep?

    Maybe the problem isn’t just the narcissists running for office. Maybe the problem is the narcissists voting for them.

    So the next time you’re watching a debate or scrolling through campaign ads, ask yourself: Do I like this candidate because they’ll make a good leader—or because they make me feel good about myself?

    Because in the end, the president isn’t just the leader of the free world. They’re the ultimate reflection of who we are as a nation. And sometimes, the mirror doesn’t lie.

  • Navigating the Political Wilderness: Growing Up in a Conservative Home

    In today’s polarized political landscape, where ideologies clash with fervor and division seems more prevalent than ever, growing up in a conservative, Republican, and devoutly Catholic home can be a unique and challenging experience. Today I’d like to explore my journey as someone who was raised in such an environment, where deeply held beliefs and a sense of responsibility to save or convert the masses often clashed with the realities of our complex world. While my parents’ devout faith and commitment to their political beliefs were unwavering, I found myself feeling politically homeless as I struggled to reconcile their perspectives with my own evolving worldview.

    A House of Faith and Politics

    From a young age, I was immersed in a household where faith and politics were inseparable. My parents were devoutly Catholic, attending church every Sunday, instilling values of faith, hope, and justice. These values were intertwined with their conservative, Republican political beliefs, which they saw as an extension of their faith.

    The Quest to Save or Convert

    One defining characteristic of my parents’ worldview was their conviction that they were responsible for saving or converting the world to their beliefs. This sense of mission was deeply rooted in their faith, and they believed that aligning with the Republican Party was the path to moral righteousness. They saw themselves as soldiers in a battle against what they perceived as the moral decay of society, driven by progressive values.

    Diverging Paths

    As I grew older and became more aware of the world outside our conservative bubble, I began to question some of the beliefs I had grown up with. While I admired my parents’ unwavering commitment to their principles, I couldn’t help but notice the moral panic and fear that often seemed to be stoked by their political leaders. The embrace of conspiracy theories further complicated matters, making it increasingly difficult to align myself with their worldview.

    Some points of contention included differing views on gun control and immigration, and social issues that affect the LGBTQ+ community. It is important to me to engage in constructive dialogue to better understand and address these differences. Too often the conservative “right wing” only wanted to preach to me rather than understand a differing opinion.

    A Quest for Identity

    My journey led me to a profound realization – I was politically homeless. I couldn’t fully embrace the Republican Party with its divisive rhetoric and sometimes fringe beliefs, nor could I align myself with the vastly progressive Democrats whose solutions often seemed impractical or out of touch with the complexities of the real world. I found that I disagree with the “left wing” on economic policy, healthcare, and foreign policy. I also disagree with extreme views on biology and whether men can become women and vice versa.

    Neither Political Party Represents Me

    Growing up in a conservative home, I learned the importance of faith, family, and values. However, I also discovered the challenges of navigating a world where political ideologies often clash with reality. As I continue to search for my political identity, I hold onto the hope that there’s a place for individuals like me who seek a middle ground, where compassion, reason, and a commitment to the betterment of society can transcend party lines. In this ever-divided world, perhaps there’s room for a new generation of politically homeless individuals who strive to bridge the gap and find common ground.