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  • The Narcissist-in-Chief: A Nation’s Reflection in the Oval Office

    Every four years, we, the American people, engage in a curious ritual: we elect a president. It’s supposed to be the highest office in the land, a symbol of leadership, integrity, and service. But if we’re being brutally honest, isn’t it really just a contest to see who has the most polished version of their own reflection staring back at them in the mirror?

    Let’s call it what it is: an exercise in collective narcissism. We choose leaders who don’t just represent us—they embody the parts of ourselves we’re either too proud of or too ashamed to admit exist. And yes, presidents are narcissists. All of them. It’s practically a requirement of the job. Who else would willingly take on the pressure of running an entire nation, standing under constant scrutiny, and delivering speeches with the cadence of a savior?

    The “Me, But Bigger” Syndrome

    Take John F. Kennedy, for example. Charming, polished, and endlessly charismatic, he gave America exactly what it wanted to see in itself at the time: youth, vitality, and boundless ambition. But let’s not forget, JFK loved the spotlight just as much as the nation loved him in it. He wasn’t just a leader—he was a mirror reflecting an America that was ready to take the world stage with confidence and swagger.

    Or how about Ronald Reagan? The actor turned president. Reagan’s “shining city on a hill” rhetoric wasn’t just about national pride—it was about making everyone feel like the protagonist of a blockbuster movie where America always saves the day. We didn’t just vote for Reagan; we voted for a Hollywood version of ourselves.

    Then there’s Donald Trump. Love him or hate him, Trump’s presidency was like a national therapy session—except instead of confronting our issues, we projected them onto a man who mastered the art of shameless self-promotion. His slogan, “Make America Great Again,” wasn’t just about nostalgia; it was a reflection of our collective fear of being left behind in a world that’s moving too fast.

    Narcissism is a Feature, Not a Bug

    Let’s be real: you can’t get elected president without a healthy dose of self-obsession. The very act of campaigning—standing on a stage, waving to crowds, and saying, “I alone can fix it”—requires a level of confidence that most of us would need several years of therapy to even attempt. The same traits that we find grating in politicians—arrogance, an insatiable need for attention, and a knack for spinning reality—are exactly what make them electable.

    Barack Obama, with his soaring speeches and rockstar persona, made Americans feel like they were part of something bigger. But let’s not kid ourselves: you don’t run for president because you’re humble. Obama’s carefully cultivated image as the “cool dad” of politics wasn’t an accident. It was a masterclass in appealing to a nation that wanted to see itself as progressive, hopeful, and yes, a little bit cooler than the rest of the world.

    Why We Elect Our Own Egos

    The truth is, we elect the candidate who best reflects our collective ego at the time. In moments of crisis, we choose leaders who project strength and decisiveness—qualities we wish we had. In times of prosperity, we lean toward charm and vision, because hey, who doesn’t love a little inspiration when things are going well?

    But the darker side of this is that we also elect candidates who mirror our flaws. When we’re divided as a nation, we choose divisive leaders. When we’re insecure, we choose leaders who promise to restore our sense of importance. And when we’re looking for someone to blame, we choose leaders who are experts at pointing fingers.

    So, What Does This Say About Us?

    If every president is a narcissist, and every election is a reflection of ourselves, then maybe it’s time to stop pointing fingers at the politicians and start taking a good, hard look in the mirror. Why do we need leaders who thrive on applause? Why do we gravitate toward candidates who make promises that no one person could possibly keep?

    Maybe the problem isn’t just the narcissists running for office. Maybe the problem is the narcissists voting for them.

    So the next time you’re watching a debate or scrolling through campaign ads, ask yourself: Do I like this candidate because they’ll make a good leader—or because they make me feel good about myself?

    Because in the end, the president isn’t just the leader of the free world. They’re the ultimate reflection of who we are as a nation. And sometimes, the mirror doesn’t lie.

  • Navigating the Political Wilderness: Growing Up in a Conservative Home

    In today’s polarized political landscape, where ideologies clash with fervor and division seems more prevalent than ever, growing up in a conservative, Republican, and devoutly Catholic home can be a unique and challenging experience. Today I’d like to explore my journey as someone who was raised in such an environment, where deeply held beliefs and a sense of responsibility to save or convert the masses often clashed with the realities of our complex world. While my parents’ devout faith and commitment to their political beliefs were unwavering, I found myself feeling politically homeless as I struggled to reconcile their perspectives with my own evolving worldview.

    A House of Faith and Politics

    From a young age, I was immersed in a household where faith and politics were inseparable. My parents were devoutly Catholic, attending church every Sunday, instilling values of faith, hope, and justice. These values were intertwined with their conservative, Republican political beliefs, which they saw as an extension of their faith.

    The Quest to Save or Convert

    One defining characteristic of my parents’ worldview was their conviction that they were responsible for saving or converting the world to their beliefs. This sense of mission was deeply rooted in their faith, and they believed that aligning with the Republican Party was the path to moral righteousness. They saw themselves as soldiers in a battle against what they perceived as the moral decay of society, driven by progressive values.

    Diverging Paths

    As I grew older and became more aware of the world outside our conservative bubble, I began to question some of the beliefs I had grown up with. While I admired my parents’ unwavering commitment to their principles, I couldn’t help but notice the moral panic and fear that often seemed to be stoked by their political leaders. The embrace of conspiracy theories further complicated matters, making it increasingly difficult to align myself with their worldview.

    Some points of contention included differing views on gun control and immigration, and social issues that affect the LGBTQ+ community. It is important to me to engage in constructive dialogue to better understand and address these differences. Too often the conservative “right wing” only wanted to preach to me rather than understand a differing opinion.

    A Quest for Identity

    My journey led me to a profound realization – I was politically homeless. I couldn’t fully embrace the Republican Party with its divisive rhetoric and sometimes fringe beliefs, nor could I align myself with the vastly progressive Democrats whose solutions often seemed impractical or out of touch with the complexities of the real world. I found that I disagree with the “left wing” on economic policy, healthcare, and foreign policy. I also disagree with extreme views on biology and whether men can become women and vice versa.

    Neither Political Party Represents Me

    Growing up in a conservative home, I learned the importance of faith, family, and values. However, I also discovered the challenges of navigating a world where political ideologies often clash with reality. As I continue to search for my political identity, I hold onto the hope that there’s a place for individuals like me who seek a middle ground, where compassion, reason, and a commitment to the betterment of society can transcend party lines. In this ever-divided world, perhaps there’s room for a new generation of politically homeless individuals who strive to bridge the gap and find common ground.